A few weeks ago I posted about how I've been a grouchy Mom and the steps I was/am taking to be better in the moment with my boys. Last week I felt a real dip in that motivation.
JL has been working odd hours and taking more on call shifts as we get financially prepared for Christmas, and his school load has been much more demanding this term than last. I feel like the second our heads hit the pillow we are both out which leaves no real time for actual communication. I love my husband so this makes me sad.
Both boys have been consistently under the weather. First we had the flu shot fall out. Then Henry decided it was a great idea to cut five teeth all at the same time while Walter went through a major growth spurt. Then that morphed into a wicked cold and my house has been infiltrated by tissues covered in bright green mucus ever since. Blegh.
I've also had a fair amount of heavy contractions and now my OB is lecturing me on premature labor. Lectures from my OB always remind me of lectures from my Grandma Fowler. Sweetly worded guilt trips.
I am not one of those mothers that follows the rule that a messy home equates to happy kids. I definitely think cleaning is important and teaches children the importance of cleanliness. I also am not one of those mothers who will completely ignore myself to make sure my kids and spouse are happy. But sometimes my attempts at balance and sanity are completely thrown off by friends that tell me I shouldn't care so much. Friends that guilt trip me for putting the boys in front of Sesame Street every day to take a shower and get dressed. And after awhile all of that peer pressure and those comments start to work on me and I wonder if I really am even a tolerable mother and wife.
Now that I've whined that all out...the point is I was losing steam. Then I came across a quote by L. Tom Perry that completely changed my perspective.
One of the greatest weaknesses in most of us is our lack of faith in ourselves. One of our common failings is to depreciate our tremendous worth.
I love it so much it's my new background on my laptop.
25 October 2012
09 October 2012
parenting....nailed it
I'm starting to realize that Walter and I take a lot of pictures like this. Both of my boys are busy reacting to their flu shots (thumbs down), so we're laying low around here. All this down time is really starting to bring out a bit of narcissism in Walter I hadn't realized was there. I'm going to worry about that later... for now, enjoy!
Strange Mom Admission: Is it wrong that my favorite physical feature of his is his birthmark smack on the center of his forehead that matches mine? Every time I see it I think, 'HA! I dare someone to say you don't belong to me!' It also makes a really good target for kisses.
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